Was It All Planned?

Meghan met Harry in 2016, and soon the couple was inseparable. Even though there were cultural differences, Harry wished to marry her. Meghan was pretty ecstatic to find her prince charming (quite literally), and the couple announced their engagement shortly after.

Meghan even claimed that she did not know much about the royal family or Harry. A few of her friends state otherwise. Her childhood friend, Ninaki Priddy, has been vocal about Meghan's obsession with the royal family. She claims that Markle has been planning it all through her life. She even claimed that Harry is innocent and has fallen to her trap!

Uncountable Differences

In an interview, Meghan revealed how she was completely swept off her feet when she first met Harry. She even told her best friend, Lizzie Cundy, that Harry was certainly the man of her dreams and any girl would be lucky to have him in her life. The first few days/months of their relationship were filled with love.

However, little did Meghan know that this honeymoon phase will get over soon. Well, starting a relationship with a royal wasn't as easy as it seemed. Though the couple tries to hide the turmoil and looks happy from the outside, there is a lot going on inside.

Pay Attention, Meghan!

The way Harry treats Meghan in front of the camera is different than how he treats her when they are all alone. However, one such episode was caught on camera, which was a clear indicator of the fact that their marriage is nothing but a huge mistake.

This happened at the Trooping of the Color event when Meghan was standing right beside Harry. While all the royal members were facing forward and were about to sing the national anthem, Meghan turned towards Harry to talk to him. Harry got frustrated and ordered Meghan to pay attention and turn around. Meghan was startled and immediately turned her head.

Archie Isn't Treated Like the Rest of Royal Children

Meghan gave birth to the couple's son Archie Harrison Mountbatten-Windsor on 6th May 2019. His name was announced two days after his birth, and he was baptized at the private chapel at Windsor Castle after two months. Even though Archie is seventh in the line of succession to the British throne, he isn't treated like any of the other royal children. Now, this could be Meghan's biggest reason for regretting marrying the Duke of Sussex.

Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip didn't even attend Archie's christening and left the public confused. However, they didn't attend Prince Louis' christening either, so that puts all speculations at rest.

Love is Just Another Name for Sacrifice

Meghan and Harry got engaged in 2017. Right after the ceremony, Meghan announced her retirement from acting. Not only that, but Meghan also closed her social media accounts and began attending public events with the British royal family.

All of the sacrifices in the name of love have put Meghan in a fix, and she often thinks if it is all worth it or not! In order to fit in, Meghan had to give up other small things in life. She cannot share her personal life on social media. Besides, she cannot cross her legs while sitting and get a colorful manicure.

Axe his Ex!

The royal family is said to be one of the most secure and private families in the world. However, Meghan still cannot stop Harry from talking to his exes. Despite various attempts from Meghan, Harry finds a chance to talk to them. It has led to a rift between this so-called power couple.

During the Trooping of the Color event, the paparazzi caught Chelsy Davy, who dated Harry for five years. She reportedly arrived there to check-up on Harry, who wasn't quite happy with Meghan Markle in his life. Even after breaking up, he remained friends with most of his exes, including Chelsy Davy.

Moving On

Prince Harry's name was linked to Chelsy Davy when he was just 21. Davy, a successful businesswoman-lawyer, is the daughter of Zimbabwean- South African businessman Charles Davy. The rumors about their relationship were confirmed when Davy attended Harry's graduation ceremony. However, the pair parted ways in 2009 after dating for five years.

After the breakup, Harry found love in Meghan. However, before the couple tied the knot, the Prince called Davy for one last time. He wanted Davy to know that he is ready to begin a new chapter in life. While Chelsey was all emotional about it, she gathered enough courage to attend the ceremony.

The Dramatic Split

Prince Harry, the Duke of Sussex, has been very close to his brother Prince William, the Duke of Cambridge. Ever since their mother died, these two were inseparable and stood by each other's side through thick and thin. However, it has been stated that ever since Meghan Markle came into the scene, the tables turned.

There has been a lot of tension between the two brothers, who do not even want to see each other now. Recently Meghan and Harry even split from The Royal Foundation, which was established by the two brothers. The couple plans to focus on a new charity in the United States.

The Union of Two Different Cultures

Meghan is a former American actress. However, she describes herself as mixed-race. It is because her mother is descended from enslaved Africans, while her father is descended from European settlers. Harry, on the other hand, belongs to the royal family.

Therefore, the fact that Meghan and Harry belong to two completely different cultural backgrounds is enough to say that they aren't a great match. Harry was supposed to find someone who belonged to a royal lineage. So, when Harry announced that he was dating Markle, the public found the movie to be quite distasteful.

The Clash of Personalities

While it was quite flattering to see Meghan and Harry together, one couldn't have noticed the difference between these two. This difference is mainly because Harry and Meghan are two opposite personalities.

Harry is someone who likes to rebel. However, he is still quite mature as compared to Meghan Markle. Harry follows each royal protocol ardently and is someone who likes to stay emotionally reserved. On the other hand, Meghan finds it difficult to follow the protocols and is naturally bubbly. Harry often tries to control her behavior and tells her to keep herself calm in front of the media and other royal family members. Erm, now that is something totally out of his hand!

Repeating History?

The royal family has seen various ups and downs when it comes to marriage and spending life together. Well, history has been proof! If only Meghan would have looked at the events and thought twice.

The various women who have married into royal families haven't really done well. It also includes Harry's mother, late Princess Diana. She was married to Prince Charles and eventually grew miserable. Diana reportedly developed an eating disorder as well. Apart from that, we have also seen Grace Kelly's tumultuous married life. She was married to the Monegasque royal family and was looked down on by other members of the family.

 

Marrying The Prince or The Royal Family

It is said that when you marry someone, you are marrying the entire family. However, Meghan is learning this the hard way. After making their relationship public, Harry and Meghan attended various functions along with the rest of the royal family. While the family looked happy together, they never revealed their inner conflicts.

Meghan struggled to win the hearts of the family members. Starting from the Queen herself, Meghan found it difficult to get along with the Duchess of Cambridge as well. It is reported that she fought with Kate and pressured her to find the best bridesmaid dress for her wedding with Harry.

Shattered Career and Broken Dreams

When Meghan Markle was set to enter the royal family, she was aware of the things she had to sacrifice. But she happily agreed to all of the conditions. She had to put her aspirations, dreams, and a glittering career to one side. However, she wasn't the only one to go through this.

Before exchanging vows with Prince William, Kate Middleton was a photographer and web designer. But in order to fit into the royal family, she has to give up her dream. Just like Kate, Meghan did not rethink her options when it came to her dreams. Her only dream was to get married to the charming Prince.

Did Meghan change Harry?

Meghan and Harry got married in a fairytale wedding in 2018. They had known each other for two years before they took the leap of faith. However, all through this time, Meghan tried her best to change Harry, and in a way, she succeeded!

Duncan Larcombe even suggested that Meghan may be the reason why Harry's behavior around other royal members has changed so drastically. Larcombe is an award-winning journalist who worked as Royal Editor for The Sun for more than a decade. Even the staff claims that Harry has always been very warm to them, but the moment Meghan comes around his behavior changes.

Actresses Are Not a Perfect Fit for Royals

Meghan Markle is a former actress who gained recognition for her role as Rachel Zane in Suits, an American legal drama. Her acting career began while she was studying at Northwestern University. However, right after getting engaged to Prince Harry, Meghan had to sabotage her career. She retired from acting, which puts a major question on her priorities as an individual.

However, she isn't the only actress to abandon her career to fit into the royal family. Sophie Rhys-Jones also retired from acting before marrying Prince Edwards. Besides, it was even reported that Prince Philip wasn't so pleased to know that Harry is marrying an actress.

Long Lost Friends

Harry and Meghan were quite outgoing before they bumped into each other. They used to spend a lot of time with their friends individually. However, the moment they began dating each other, their life began revolving around the relationship only. This, in turn, has put a strain on their relationship with their friends.

While Harry is finding it difficult to stay in touch with Astrid Harbord and Tom Inskip, Meghan has also lost all her contacts with some of her closest friends. Lizzie Cundy, one of the Duchess' best friends, stated that Meghan ghosted her the moment things got serious between the couple.

Setting My Own Rules

Meghan Markle has sacrificed a lot just so she could be a part of the Royal family. However, there are so many things that she does, which upsets the people around her. While her activities aren't that offensive, the royal experts have called her out several times.

It includes the time when Meghan wore a sleeveless dress in public. The way the former actress dresses has made her an easy target. She has even worn formal dresses without tights underneath. Now, it isn't clear whether the female members of the royal family have to wear tights for every public appearance; Meghan has pledged to work this her way.

Is It Worth Trying This Hard?

Right from the beginning of the relationship, Meghan has been working twice as hard to fit in. We are certain, if it was someone who wasn't from the royal family, Meghan wouldn't have to try this hard. Nick Ede, a PR expert, claims that Meghan has put herself into a crazy task. No matter how much she tries, there is always something that puts her in the midst of gossip.

Meghan left a glistening career and fame for the sake of love. Before meeting Harry, she only used to concentrate on her television series Suits. However, now she is in a position where she thinks twice before speaking.

Meghan is Hated Even by the Public

Meghan didn't just face criticism from her royal peers; she even withstood hate from the public. After she confirmed her relationship with Prince Harry, she saw a spike in the number of hateful messages she was receiving. Her social media platforms were filled with hateful comments and messages. While all this hate upset her, Meghan was prepared to endure it all with Harry by her side.

However, it was just the tip of the iceberg! Various comments and stories have been kept hidden from the public. Besides, there have been several legal battles to contain defamatory stories that were leaked out by the people who were previously close to Meghan.

Set me up with a Famous British Guy

However, it is obvious that Meghan might have given a thorough thought about her decision to marry Harry. At the same time, Lizzie Cundy revealed in a startling interview that Meghan asked her to set her up with a famous British guy.

Meghan specifically mentioned that she's single and would love to date an English man. So is that one of the reasons she fell for Harry, the prince charming of the English lands. But, has this wish been just a heartfelt desire or has turned into true love as well, is a bit debatable.

Meghan Denied Access to Royal Jewels

Marrying a prince has its own perks - like luxurious houses, precious jewels, fancy cars, and more. Perhaps that's what Meghan thought when she walked down the aisle with Harry. However, expectations hurt. Don't they? For instance, there were newspaper headlines stating that Meghan had been denied access to the Royal Collection by none other than the Queen herself.

Though Queen Elizabeth has been heartily lending many crown jewels to Princess Diana and William's wife, Kate, she probably didn't feel that Meghan was worthy of it. Besides, her majesty has complete discretion on making such decisions; speculations are rife that it was Meghan's behavioral choices to blame for this.

A Constant Struggle with Relationships

While many such episodes have revealed that Meghan is clearly struggling to keep up with her in-laws, it seems like she isn't doing great with her own family either. Ever since it was publicly announced that Meghan is marrying Prince Harry, many members have been pouring scorn on her.

Her half-sister Samantha, and brother Thomas Markel Jr, are not on talking terms with her. Also, her father, Thomas Markle, famously announced that he will not attend her wedding nuptials, and neither did he. Thomas also mentioned in a recent interview that Meghan must lower her ego and fulfill their father's dying wish of meeting his grandson Archie.

A Strong-Willed Woman

Meghan is surely a strong-willed woman, and it is pretty evident from the fact that she has been turning things her way in the royal family. Her majesty has been no exception and has been benevolent with Meghan on several occasions.

Firstly the Queen Allowed her to attend the Royal Christmas party much earlier than they exchanged the vows, which is otherwise forbidden. Not to mention, a royal prince was not allowed to marry a divorcee in church, but again, her majesty showed clemency and permitted Harry to marry the now Duchess of Sussex. And this has happened for the very first time in the history of the British royal family.

The Struggles of a Royal Life

Royal life is not always a bed of roses. It has its fair share of troubles and obligations, yet Meghan seemed to have learned it the hard way. Besides, the couple expressed their thoughts on the matter in their documentary 'Harry and Meghan: An African Journey,' which made many members of the royal family worry about them.

In the documentary, they also talk about their family, several rumors, while their natural charm was oozing off the screens. The documentary was originally telecasted in the UK and later in Australia, Europe, and Africa as well. And the couple tried hard to balance their personal life with their royal duties, nevertheless.

Not so Okay

Meghan has been much more vocal about her struggles with the royal obligations than Harry. Becoming a newlywed, a royal family member, and a mother has brought a lot of pressure on her. At one point in the documentary, she expresses that not many people have asked if she is okay, and as a woman, it's a lot.

But one share of this pressing statement is the fact that she and her family are under constant media scrutiny. Yet, it also throws light on the probability that she is not receiving much support from within the royal family. However, soon after, Meghan mentions that Harry is always there for her.

Errs from the Past

Past romances of the couple have also been dug up from their graves and turned into hot topics by various tabloids. And are also becoming another concern for the couple's relationship, as these are new to both of them. However, at one particular instance, Meghan herself claimed that Ashley Cole, a former English left-back, had tried to woo her for a date.

But Ashley Cole's sister, Matty Cole, who is also a journalist, quashed her claim, stating that her brother is pretty famous for having begged Meghan Markle for a date. And when questions about these past relationships are put forth to the royal couple, they're certainly not as easy.

How much is too much?

In the same documentary, Meghal and Harry are also seen complaining about the excessive media coverage of their personal life. Meghan also confessed that constantly being surrounded by the media, especially during her pregnancy, has been a major cause of stress.

She also claimed that the British media were being too harsh on her and was publishing negative news on her in order to mar her social image. But Lizzie Cundy thinks otherwise. She mentions that just a few years back, Meghan begged for any media exposure, and probably it is long held dream came true.

A Changed Meghan

People who had known Meghan from the days before she stepped into royalty talk of a completely different Markle they knew. Some say that she has turned really manipulative ever since she married Harry. Others think that the views she expresses on several subjects are different than those of the Meghan they knew.

Another celebrity Gloria Hunniford also bashed Meghan for being manipulative, and that marrying into royalty doesn't mean that she will always get her way. She is also no longer in touch with friends from her earlier days.

Allegations of Over Splurging

Meghan has also received flak for not handling their finances well. Besides, she has been spending a ridiculous amount of money on her wardrobe, aromatherapy, and spa appointments. Not to mention that both Harry and Meghan were criticized for their excessive use of private jets.

On top, Meghan, still being an American citizen, is paying her taxes in the states and perhaps a lot of the couple's royalties are subject to American taxation. Though it's true that the royalty doesn't have to bother about having food on their plate, the British public is not so happy about the huge bills, and this royal couple is footing.

Meghan is making Harry speak out

For the last few years, Harry has been very vocal about his feelings and memories of his mother, Princess Diana. And though it is a bit debatable to decide that if it's for the good or not, Meghan has been prompting Harry to open up about his hidden feelings.

Harry even did a podcast show with a famous journalist, and the journalist claimed that it was Meghan who encouraged him to do so. Hopefully, it has had a positive impact on Harry, as he unloaded the burden off his chest. But some say that he didn't yet seem ready to speak out.

A disgrace for the British Monarchy

Though we can all understand that Harry has been through a major trauma as a kid and that he is now opening up on his past, many are not happy about the fact that the couple is using it as an excuse for their poor behavior.

And especially it's the Queen herself who seems to be the most disappointed in her grandson and his wife. It is their constant rebellious attitude that has either made the Queen make exceptions and, at times, furious for a good reason. However, with each passing day, the drama seems to be getting worse, and they are proving an embarrassment for the royal family.

She is pushing Harry away from his family

Meghan made another huge blunder when she took Harry away from his family at the most festival in the family. Meghan decided to celebrate Christmas with her mother Doria Ragland in Vancouver islands, Canada, with her husband Harry and son Archie by her side.

Even though the royal family publicly supported her decision, sources reveal that the Queen is completely disappointed in them for this choice. And why not? It is perhaps the first time ever that not all royal family members were together during their private Christmas celebrations. Meghan seems like pushing Harry away from his own family.

Making Big Decisions

Marrying into royalty comes with huge roles and responsibilities, and certainly, Meghan has made some very big decisions. Nonetheless, not all of those decisions were actually made wholeheartedly made by Meghal. Yet, one big decision that she made recently was actually all in her favor.

The duo released a joint statement that they were going to carve out a new role in the same institution after months of thought and reflection. This statement on their Instagram account was enough to create a stir in public, and it was sure that something big was about to happen in the royal household.

Meghan made Harry step down

Later it was revealed that both Harry and Meghan Markle have decided to step back from their royal duties and become financially independent. This came as a rude shock to not only the British masses but to the world over. Even though it seems like a mutual decision, many claims that Harry required persuasion to take the plunge.

This is another step by which Meghan is taking Harry away from his family. However, it is ironic that despite this role change, about 95% of their expenses will still be fooled by the Duchy of Cornwall. Now, how fair is that?

Meghan's Taken Harry to North America

Another shocking outcome of this statement was that Meghan and Harry would be relocating out of Britain. Perhaps to a location close to Meghan's former work or her childhood place. This was especially relevant after she faced a lot of flak for her behavior and attitude.

Some speculated that she would make Harry live in her home country, Canada, leaving millions of English people to feel bitter that Harry is further distanced from his family, just to be close to her own. And so she did. Another reason to relocate was probably her thirst for more freedom and living a carefree life in leisure.

She has Broken many Hearts in the Royal Family

Ever since Meghan stepped into Harry's life, their actions have constantly been disappointing and hurtful even within the royal family. And now, when he decided to step down, it has made matters even worse.

Be it his brother, who is rumored to have warned him to not be dictated by Meghan, or his grandmother, Queen Elizabeth, who has been bending so many rules to accommodate Harry's wishes, have had their heartbroken by his Choices. Her majesty even decided not to mention Harry in her annual Christmas speech. And probably the Queen is the one who's hurt the most.

What about Prince Archie's future?

Maybe Meghan should have never married the prince and caused so much rift in the ever graceful British royal family. On top, her decision will mean that prince Archie will grow up away from his cousins and extended family, might distant even the next generation of Harry.

The royal family would have loved to have Harry's kid in the palace as much as they love William's. Yet, only time will tell what results will the couple's decision to give Archie a normal upbringing bear in the future. Well, what if Archie grows up to have an identity crisis when he grows up and visits his royal family?

Meghan Markle's Legal Drama

Meghan Markle's battle with the media has become quite bitter over the course of time. She even took legal action against the Mail, which reportedly published a private letter that she had sent to her father in 2019. She alleged that the Duchess of Sussex's private information was misused. However, the paper's parent company denied all the allegations. The press ran the story for several months and revealed some sensitive information regarding the former actress's relationship with her father.

It is supposed that if Meghan was not married to Harry, she wouldn't have had this issue at all.

Awkward Reunions

Meghan shouldn't have married Harry, and the reasons are many! One of them is the fact that she won't be able to avoid family reunions even if she wants to. When Meghan and Harry announced to step down from their royal duties, they shocked the whole country. While the royal family did not release any official statement, every royal family member was in shock!

Besides, the couple wasn't really sure about returning to the UK because they did not know how to face their family members. However, upon their return, they had to go through an awkward reunion.

Stepping Down from the Royal Duties

When Meghan and Harry finally decided to step down from their royal duties, he knew that it will come with a price. The Queen strictly addressed the couple that she will put an end to all the privileges the couple was enjoying before leaving their duties behind. Harry and Meghan took the step because they wanted to get financially dependent. Even though they shifted to North America, the couple will split their time between the UK and the States.

One of the many privileges that Harry and Meghan will have to give up is their security. The Queen will no longer pay for their security, which reportedly costs $25 million.

Meghan is a Divorcee

Prince Harry, the Duke of Sussex, broke all stereotypes when he announced that he is dating the American actress Meghan Markle. Meghan, who was famous in Hollywood for her role in the legal drama Suits, had already got her heart broken before she met the Prince.

Meghan's relationship with film producer Trevor Engelson began in 2004, and soon after, they started living together. After various years of dating each other, the couple finally decided to get married in 2011. The ceremony took place in Jamaica. However, they decided to part ways after eighteen months. Meghan's short-lived marriage was enough to stop her from marrying Harry.

Harry was Much Popular than Meghan

Harry has had quite a few unsuccessful relationships in the past. He first started dating Chelsy Davy. However, the couple separated after dating for five years. The reason behind their breakup was the crazy attention she received from the media.

After Davy, Harry found love in Cressida Bonas, who is the granddaughter of Edward Curzon. Even Bonas couldn't take the scrutiny of the strangers while she was dating Harry, which led to their breakup. Considering all of this, Meghan found it easier to settle with Harry since she was used to all the public attention. However, the criticism she received was much more than she could have imagined.